Also ain't hard to guess where in the U.S. they're living.So, she was 14 when they met/starting dating/whatever... The main issue is how old the guy is. If he's 19 or so, it's not really an issue. Just a teenage romance grown up.
So I did some googling. He's a youth pastor, and it's rumored (he doesn't list his official age) he's born in 1998 - making him 25 years old. Making him 21 when he met his 14 year old GF. Now fiancee.
girl got groomed hard.